愛情 - Love - This is for the Playboy

有些男人，不能當情人，但卻能夠成為你一輩子的朋友。
There are guys that can't be treat as boyfriend but can be your true friend forever.

如果你身邊有這樣的人，當他追求你時，你不一定要接受。如果明知道彼此在一起不會有結果，就不要讓彼此有機會開始。
If you have friend like this, you have a choice of accepting him or not. If you know from the beginning there will be no happiness between you and him, lets not have the flower the chance to blossom.

有時候，人都有一種犯賤的心理。得不到的東西都是最好的，所以這種人特別喜歡追求那些不屬於他的事物，只為了那種“終於到手”的快感。這一種人，尤其是男人，也常為了一個女人苦等多年，然而當女人被感動後，點頭答應與他交往時，才不過兩個月的時間，男人就提出分手的要求。
There are times where human being have this unpleasant mindset, where what they can't own is the best thing they want to have. The feel of owning that piece of jewel is what they are going after. This kind of guy would only makes girls suffer because they can make a girl wait for him and once the girls are touch and accept them, the guy would only break up with her where the relationship lasted not more than 2 months!!.believe me, this is a trend that is happening these days and this also apply to girls!

因為，男人說，彼此性格不合，發覺女人和自己想像中的不一樣，便決定結束這段由他先開始的感情……
The lame excuse that was given will the usual like character differences and he has decide to end this first before it hurt you girls even deeper!.....

是因為愛情是盲目的，所以當初男人看不清女人的個性，交往後才後悔呢，還是到手後就失去了追求的快感，所以也忘了珍惜？
This happen due to in the early stage, the guy fail to see the character difference(lead to lots of argument) and end up to break up?.....or is it because of after getting what the guy wanted and forget how to appreciate her? Usually this will be the case.....

不管真相是甚麼，惟一肯定的，就是當初女人沒答應和他交往的話，也許他們還能成為一輩子的好朋友，雖然關係有點曖昧。但，這總好過份手後做不成朋友吧？不單失戀，同時也失去一個曾經關心呵護你的朋友，你說，女人會不傷心嗎？
What ever the reason was, but one thing is for sure is that if the girl did not accept the guy at first place, they will still be good friend, probably friends forever. Wouldn't it be more worst to break up and loose a friend as well?

所以，聰明的女人會讓這些男人一輩子圍繞在她身旁，卻又不給他們一點機會。因為，這樣做，才能讓他們捧在手心中呵護，直到永遠……畢竟，得不到的，永遠是最好的；愛情更是如此。
That's why, a smart girl would have this guy around here, but she will never gave them the chance to be together. Because of this, she will always be treated as precious Jewel.
What we can't own will always be the best thing that we try to get or owned.Remember the car you bought? Remember the first love? Remember how hard and sometimes how stupid we are to do something to impress her?Well, "Love" would apply the same as well.......

All right, I must admit that my writing skill is no way near A grade or even C grade, but at least I try to translate it to English for those that who can't read Chinese.

I pick up this article from a newspaper where I found it to be true and it speak to my heart when I was young and I wanted to share it with my reader. I hope after reading the article, many would realise that "Love" is a very powerful word fill with enormous emotion. Love brings euphoria in life. "Love" can give great satisfaction and enjoyment forever. For that to happen, you have to understand more about what is love, your own expectations and how to get the partner with whom you can live in love. Need to remind that, "Love" can also destroy, It can make a person do the unthinkable.

Many of us complain about our partners. He/she is this and that. We have a long list of complaints and as days go by, our list increases finally leading to a break-up. Can we do something different than complaining? Sure. We can express our love and faith in our partner. We can praise him/her for their good qualities and make them feel our love. It will have two effects- our own focus shifts from bad to good, and our partner also would want to reciprocate our love. This will make them stop doing what hurts us. It is easy to destroy a relationship. Why not build?

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